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Cam Girls-Real Love…?

There is no doubt that cam girls are pretty, seductive, hot. But it doesn’t mean you will like all of them. Because you know, not every cam girl must be pretty to you. She doesn’t have to be your type. Somebody likes busty girls somebody petite girls… But have you ever thought about dating a cam girl  you watch on her cam? Do you think is it possible to make her love you? Do you think she will really love you? How can you be sure about it? Don’t you know what is her job about? To be a cam girl is about pretending, is about playing a role like does an actress. So do you really think is it possible to have a serious relationship with a cam girl?

First of all you must realize why somebody want to be a cam girl and what kind of man is a cam girl. So what is the reason? Why to be a cam girl?  Maybe it is all about sex. They just love speaking about sex and they love much to show other people their body. Maybe they need big attention from guys and this way is great to get what they want. Maybe they are not much self-confident so when guys  want them they feel much better. But maybe it is all about money. You know, bussiness is bussiness nothing personal. They just want your money nothing more. So if you try to ask them for a date do you really think she will say yes and if so do you really think she doesn’t want just your money?

Maybe to be a cam girl is a great way for them to find their soulmate you know, they can choose because lots of guys want them. But the problem is how they can be sure those men are really serious, how they can be sure they don’t want just sex? But it is their problem because chatting watching their cam is about sex and not about love so they should look for their soulmate somewhere else and not among horny guys.

Smart cam girls are professionals and their job is just job so if you want more than sex and  they want it too they will ask you to do it somewhere else. Job is job it’s nothing personal. So then you can chat with them or email them but of course not on their job sites. These girls are perfect and I absolutely respect them.

Unprofessional cam girls just play games with you. They pretend love using words like honey, babe, but you must realize it is just a game! Other unprofessional cam girls are on dating sites. These girls irritate me because I don’t  like liars! And they lie because they pretend they want love but when you contact them they will ask you for watching their cam. But  you don’t want to see them naked, you don’t want to see their porn so… And you must pay for it! But I want love and the cam girl just want my money, why should I pay for being loved, why should I pay for chatting with her to get to know her better not her job but her mind!

So yes, it is possible to find a soulmate among cam girls but only among professional cam girls. If you find a cam girl who is on a dating site and you  will contact her and she will ask you for watching her paying site run away as fast as you can. She just want your money! If you read in someone’s profile something  like this:hot, horny, fun, give me a kiss and I will give you a nice blow job and if someone’s is almost naked in their profile picture it is higly probably the person is a cam girl!

How To Become Popular

Lots of guys want to be popular, lots
of guys wants to be famous. That’s why they admire people who are
already popular no matter if they are actors or singers or somebody
else. But do you know how to become popular or do you just dream about
it? So I will give you some advices and then you could become whoever
you want to be: a singer, an actor, being rich…

Willing is not enough you must do. Knowledge is not enough you must apply.

If you want something but you don’t try
to reach it then you just dream about it but dreaming is not enough.
Yes, dreaming is also important because dreaming motivates you, gives
you energy to do something to make your dreams come true. But dreaming
without actions is not enough.

If you have knowledge what to do, how
to reach your goals, if you have body and mind skills for reaching your
goals what is it good enough if you don’t use your knowledge? Without
doing something to make your dreams come true you will just dream…

You know, there are lots of people who
want to be famous. For example there are lots of people in Hollywood
who want to be a movie star. And lots of them have talent for being the
movie star but how come they are not famous yet?

You must know yourself as much as you can. You must know what you really can do!

Have you seen American Idol? So you
could see how much people thought that they really can sing. But the
truth was absolutely different. Why did they thought they really sing
perfectly? Because they didn’t know themselves well. We people are
great at lying to myself. We think that we are great at singing, we
could be a super movie star etc.

I think vs I Know

Do you know the difference between I
think and I know? And there is really  difference between them. It is
not just illusion! When you think it is always about uncertainty but
when you know it is always about facts: I can give you proof that I
really sing amazingly, I can give you proof I know how to make a
perfect movie etc.

Body and mind skills

No matter what you do, no matter what is your goal it is always about your body and mind skills.I will give some examples:

Singing- body skills:

You must know how to breath, yeah you
know how to breath but do you know how to use your power of breathing
for singing?  Because breathing has amazing power…Do you know how to
breath naturally what means you will be healthy or don’t you want to be
healthy?

You must know something about body
position, what body position can make your singing better and what not.
Or you don’t want to sing better? Do you really think you don’t have to
improve your singing? Do you really think that your singing is the best
in the world?

You must know how do you create sounds
and how you can improve that sounds because singing is about sound,
isn’t it? So you must train your breathing, your lips, your tongue…

Singing- Mind Skills:

it is especially about self motivation
and of course about knowledge of yourself. Then it is not important if
somebody believes you or not because you know that you can do it!

You must know how to motivate yourself

If you don’t trust yourself,  how can
you think that other people will trust you? If you don’t like yourself
how can you think that other people will like you? If you are not happy
how can you think that other people will be happy with you what means
you will be popular?…And all of this is about motivation. If you will
give something up it is because you are not enough motivated because:

Where is a will there is a way

self motivation is about using your
mind energy for doing something, for reaching your goals. If you don’t
have this energy you will be failure, you will be a loser. And you
don’t want to be a loser, do you? So how to motivate yourself?

Concentration+Relaxation+Imagination+Frequency

You must be as much as you can concentrated on what you want to reach.

When you are as much as you can relaxed then you have lots of energy for concentration and for reaching your goals.

Imagination is about using your
internal senses: imagine how would you feel, what would you see, what
would you hear if you reached your goals. And do it frequently but
remember more important than how long you use imagination is how often
you use your motivation.

You must know how you can reach your goals

And again it is about knowledge, about
facts. You must know and not think  that this way is really great to
become a movie star, a singer…

I know it is not enough so if you have any questions just ask me…

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